Some readers may have noticed that I didn’t share a post last week. I’m on the upswing now I think, but I was pretty depressed last week due to a confluence of reasons, not the least of which is my current struggle with sleep apnea (I think. I haven’t officially been diagnosed yet, but the … Continue reading Asphyxia
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Katagelophobia, and Fears of Being Seen
As I crawl out of bed at four in the morning for my five a.m. shift, I can't help but feel a weight in my heart. I’ve known what I wanted to be for a long time, but I've never had the courage to pursue it. I didn't dream about managing people at a clothing … Continue reading Katagelophobia, and Fears of Being Seen
Faraway Fireworks
My partner leads me to the scenic spot near our apartment to watch the fireworks celebration across the city. In the distance there are explosions of color, punctuated by soft delayed bangs. It’s too far for us to see them clearly, but the spectacle is captivating all the same. Palm trees of light and cinder … Continue reading Faraway Fireworks
Where Transition Meets Tradition
It's happened to me a few times now: a friend or colleague will make a post online about recovering from a procedure, or take an extended leave of absence from work, and a mutual friend or acquaintance will ask me whether I know if they are having gender-affirming surgery. In a world where the idea … Continue reading Where Transition Meets Tradition
Sam Wolfe is alive 